From the String-Ring website:
Tying a string around your finger as a reminder is an ancient tradition, thought to keep an idea from escaping — literally tying the idea to yourself.
The StringRing™ is a cue to remind yourself and those who notice it, to be kind to one another. To do a kind act, say, or even think something kind. Each color of string represents a specific kindness reminder.
Well, the incredibly NICE Tina of String-Ring has offered THREE, that's right, THREE String-Rings to use as a giveaway. Lucky you!To enter, leave a comment on this post with a virtual compliment. Say something nice about someone else. It could be a coworker, or family member, or someone you saw on the street. I'll pick three random winners. The contest ends next Thursday, September 17th, at 8pm ET!
And because I never ask you to do something I wouldn't do, here's my compliment. :)
Even though I've slacked a bit the last few weeks, I've been trying to get back into sketching and drawing. It's hard. I admit it. But one thing I've been doing lately is searching for inspiration. Artists that have styles that make me want to be a better drawer. There are two in particular I've recently stumbled upon that blow my mind. Paul Heaston and Pete Scully. I could look at their drawings for hours upon hours.
Okay, now it's your turn! And please visit String-Ring to learn more about it!
129 comments:
I've always thought of myself as a nice person, smiling and saying hello, but the generosity of some people blows me away at times.
A few weeks ago, a man named Darren happened to stand behind me in the line at Subway, and when it became apparent that for some reason my pin number wasn't working and I couldn't afford my sub, he stepped in and paid for the sub.
Then we rode the train together, and he continued to talk to me, not at all adverse to the idea of conversing randomly with someone not only in a line, but on a crowded train!
So, I'm complimenting all the people out there that have nice enough hearts to not only pay for stranger's food, but talk unashamedly to people on the train, instead of simply ignoring them and going about their own lives. The world needs more people like Darren.
I want to compliment my eldest daughter, age 10 and a half. She is in grade six and is battling all the joys of peer pressure, hormonal changes, and trying to figure out who she is in this complicated world that we live in. I compliment her on being brave enough to keep trying, brave enough to try to discover what it is she is good at and being brave enough to be true to herself in the face of peer pressure. It is truly an honour to be a part of this young lady's life and I am so proud of the young woman she is growing up to be!
Last Friday night my husband and I helped to chaperone the local high school's marching band (two of our own daughters are members). It was a hot night to be marching in full uniform, so the parents handed out free bottles of water to the kids after pregame. Lots of those bottles ended up under the bandstand once they were empty, and they needed to be picked up after the game.
My compliment goes out to all of those teenage band members who, instead of bolting for the band room to change and get on with their evening, stopped for a few extra minutes to throw away their own trash and to help pick up after their fellow band members who were not so thoughtful. It was really great to see that lots of the kids felt compelled to be nice and help the adult chaperones out.
i want to compliment my mother. not only because she is amazing, generous, intelligent and self-made (all of which she is). but because she raised me on her own and did a darn good job doing it. she's my best friend and i wouldn't have it any other way!
xo
Kelly
Oh! I remember these from last year! So lovely!
I want to compliment my daughter. Last school year was so challenging for both of us. This year, Meg has really worked on starting out with a positive attitude and more self-discipline and motivation . . . and it's making all the difference to both of us! So proud of her for stepping up her game!!
I want to compliment my husband. We've been going through some rough financial times lately but he remains my rock, being ever patient, supportive, and giving. He always thinks of me first, even when I might not even realize it. He is the most amazing person in my life and I try to remember that every day.
Thanks, Melissa, for offering this opportunitiy!
I want to compliment YOU! This site is just so wonderful & you always have such a sunny disposition on her & Twitter! : )
My compliment is for my very dear friend Melissa Thiessen (@melitami on Twitter). Despite personal health struggles she is tireless in her efforts to care for her friends and family. She has been there for me in good and bad times with no hesitation. She truly defines what a friend should be.
And if that was not enough, she is my co-organizer of Philadelphia Twestival. Her caring, enthusiasm, energy, intelligence and quiet calm are the reason we are able to help so many others with the Philadelphia Twestival events. She is one of the truly NICE people in the world.
I'd love to compliment my mother. She does so many things for other people and doesn't even think about herself. She's lost weight recently and she looks really good! I'm really proud of her! Thanks for this opportunity!
I called my grandparents last night for the first time in a long while and I was reminded how amazing they both are. Not only are their lives inspiring, but their love for the family is unbelievable. I love my family, but my grandparents are never mad, annoyed or upset when I forget to call, just excited that I finally did!
I am so grateful for the men who mow/landscape my yard in the blistering Texas heat on a weekly basis. They always do so with a friendly wave and a smile on their faces.
The next person who posts a comment here rulz!!!
'Nuff said.
My compliment:
Today I read Jenny's blog at jennysimmons.com It was incredibly encouraging as always, and hillariously funny at the same time. She deserves a compliment for taking the time to write on her blog. (in the midst if touring, recording an album and raising a daughter!)
If my comment gets picked to win...why don't you give the ring to the person who commented after me though? I don't really need another ring and Im sure it'll put a smile on someone elses face :) That'll be what I want! haha.
Love those string rings! They're so cool!! What a great idea!
I'd like to compliment all my neighbors... one of our neighbors had a motorcycle accident recently and all of us have rallied to help out, rearranging furniture in their house and moving a bed downstairs, checking in on them, helping out how we can. I love living in this neighborhood where our neighbors are so, well, neighborly!
This compliment goes out to my friend with mild Asperger's syndrome, who has been able to overcome his developmental condition to become a high school teacher. I truly admire his intellect and his persistence, and have no doubt that he will be a wonderful teacher to all his students.
Those rings are so pretty!
My compliment goes out to my mother in law. She is one of the most generous, kind, loving people I know--and it's completely genuine.
My compliment is for my friend who has the office next to me. She is a much more experienced attorney than me, and even though she is swamped with tons of her own work to do, she always take time out of her day to answer my questions and review my work. Thank you for being so kind, CMC!
In this day of never ending stimulation (phones, computers, radio, TV) it is a rare treat to find someone who gives their undivided attention and REALLY listens. My complement goes out to my new friend Katie. She has a honed ability to focus, listen intently and give genuine thoughtful feedback.
To the woman who shops at the store I used to work at: Thank you for coming back that night with a copy of the book you asked if I'd read. You ran out of the store during my shock and amazement and I didn't get a chance to thank you properly. I read the book cover to cover in a matter of days and was so moved by it. I wanted to tell you how much it affected me. What you gave me wasn't just a book, it was an experience and your kindness makes me aspire to be a better person.
PS: I really like your earrings, too. They suit you.
I would like to say how wonderful it was seeing my 10 year old daughter helping her 9 year brother with his homework last night while I was making dinner. She was offering up loads of encouragement and praise. I was very proud!
My mom had a hysterectomy a few weeks ago, and in spite of still needing to rest and relax more than usual, she happily offered to watch my son yesterday (and today!) while I went to appointments. Without her, he would have had an interrupted nap and would be stuck in his stroller for over an hour. I'm lucky to have her.
I want to compliment my new friends who run the local youth ministry. They work hard as volunteers, and really take the time to look after not only each individual in the group, bt also each other. Tehy celebrated my birthday despite knowing me for only a short while with all the fanfare of old friends! They have also been wonderful about introducing new people into the administrative group and making them feel like part of the core. Keep it up! You guys are GREAT!
I'm taking this opportunity to express my gratitude to The Huz for being a wonderful partner, a great friend, and someone who I don't want to imagine my life without. Bill makes me laugh every day (whether I want to or not) and...well, isn't that what life's about? I love him to bits.
P.S. Thank YOU, Melissa, for providing inspiration to all of us to bring just a little more kindness into the universe.
Last week I got a surprising card in the mail from a friend with two Starbucks giftcards! She's pregnant, and is thankful that I gave her husband a ride home late one night. She put a smile on my face for the whole day, and I thought of her kindness again today when I used one of the cards. And her name? Carma! I think she put some good karma out there last week and I hope it came back to her threefold.
Have a wonderful weekend everyone!
My 10-year-old daughter is amazing. Earlier this week she started her orthodontic treatments and has metal expanders in her mouth. They are uncomfortable and we have to expand the appliance twice a day. It's painful and she hasn't complained at all. I don't think I could be as strong as she is. I have a new level of pride for her. Wow.
I would like to share a "nice" moment that stands out in my mind. We were downtown (San Jose) at a Dia de los Muertos celebration at the art museum last year. We were standing around outside when we saw a homeless man digging through the trash can. We watched him pull out a cup (of old coffee?) and proceed to drink it. My brother-in-law (Mayke from Brazil) took the cup, threw it away, and took the man to the nearest cafe to buy him lunch. I was so touched by what he had done I immediately broke down and started crying. I learned a life lesson that day.
What a wonderful piece of jewelry with Heart! Thanks for the chance to win!
I just have to quickly say a virtual thank you to a wonderful young woman who makes ure every day that she makes someone smile. I work with her and have been the recipiant of many of her heartfelt compliments, encouragements and just general NICE....so thank you Shelby!!!!
It really is hard just to pick one person to compliment...or even just a few to make sure this doesn't get too long winded. Hhhmmm.
My new friend Janelle is a beautiful woman inside and out. And an inspiration to continue my art and never let go of creativity.
This week, I started a new job. My coworker, April, has been so sweet and made me feel right at home. She has shown me around, taken me to lunch, and guided me along. Without her, I'd feel like a fish out of water but she's made everything great! YAY APRIL!
Melissa, you are such an inspiration!
My compliment and dearest wishes goes to the anonymous couple who found themselves stranded like I was eight years ago today. I drove to work that afternoon still reeling from the morning's atrocity. At midnight, I left work and found that my car had been burgled. The passenger side window was smashed, my things were strewn across the sidewalk, and the thief had almost removed my battery when he was discovered by security at a nearby office building. He had apparently gotten away with two other car batteries among other things but was caught a few blocks away. I spent about an hour putting my car back together and trying to get my car started when a very distraught couple, baby in tow, came back to their car; one of the ones that had been damaged. The woman cleared the backseat so they could put the baby into her carseat while the man came up and helped me re-attach my battery leads and get my car started. Their battery had been unattached long enough to need a jump to start it, so they decided they would just sleep in the car until morning, then go to a gas station. I was able to eventually find jumper cables to get their car started, but their calm acceptance in dealing with such a frustrating situation, especially on a day when something so much worse had happened, helped me to keep it together at least long enough to get home.
Did I mention it was my birthday too? It really was the best present I could have received; someone being really Nice to me after sharing tragedy. It's kind of been an inspiration ever since.
Thank you for letting me share!
I love the rings and the idea behind them!
My compliment is for my daughter, Charlotte. She is a freshman in high school this year and plays on the tennis team. Even though her classes are much more difficult this year, she is doing great. She is such a hard-worker and a fabulous kid!
First, let me say that I LOVE this ring and really want to win it.
Okay, like someone before me said, it's hard to narrow down one compliment. But, I'd like to say thank you to my son for his "random hugs of affection." Given freely and taken gratefully.
Yeah for my SIL who has been going the extra mile for close fmaily and friends who need a helping hand. On top of her f/t job she bakes banana bread, picks up elderly and takes thme to church, sends out update emails on the health status of an ill uncle. She goes beyond her regular day and time to help others, showing the love of God to those around her. Bravo Jackie.
I would like to compliment two of my good friends who literally dropped what they were doing to help me move. It was a fairly desperate situation and I was a 1000 miles away. After speaking with them both offered to come help get me back home and showed up the NEXT DAY. So I compliment them on their selflessness and kindness!
A compliment for my best friend of 25 years because she's funny and loyal and cares enough to keep from being my own worst enemy. She's also a great mom and without her I would have the best nephew and niece a person could ever hope for.
Thank you, Melissa, for creating this site and encouraging people out there to be kinder to each other. :-)
This is for my friend and co-worker, G, who has been off work for most of the summer after having surgery. I miss her desperately! I miss her wit, her wisdom, her patience, her knowledge, and her skill. She makes work entertaining and enjoyable. She encourages me to be the best person I can be and I adore her!
My friend Sarah has an amazing soul. I feel like I can tell her anything and she won't blab to others. It's hard to find those kinds of friends.
Also I emailed you today a lil story about my friend Sarah and I and what we did last night! :)
my fiance is the sweetest man! he made an itemized budget list for our wedding, helps me with the wedding plans, and even brings me flowers when i'm having a bad day!
My compliment is to you, Melissa, for creating such a beautiful and inspirational website. Operation Nice has effected my life, and the lives that surround me. I now give more complement cards, flowers, tell jokes, smile and interact more with people (that I do and dont know). I am constantly inspired by your site! I love all the projects you do, and your honesty.
so, thank you , Operation Nice, for being so brave and waking loads of people up! its important to live conscious lives, full of gifting others with, and accepting others kindness.
Thanks for all that you do, and inspire us to do!
Best-
Jessica from Vancouver.
I love the idea of the string-ring regardless of the possibility of winning one!
My compliment is for one of my best friends, Kathy, as she is a saint on earth. She is the most amazing person one will ever meet. She is a giver and for those of us that get to receive we are blessed for the gift.
I was in a very bad car accident on July 31st. I was being taken to one of the two major trauma centers here in Dallas, and the one Kathy works for (but on the corporate side). I called her from the ambulance, scared and worried, and asked if she could possibly meet me at the ER, and in her calming voice she said “we’ll I’ll be there as soon as I can”. I was brought in around 9:30 in the morning and was released at 4:30 that afternoon. Kathy stayed with me the whole day, held three phone conference meetings in between my x-rays, CT scans and other procedures. She never once left my side. She made phone calls on my behalf, talked to my Mother who was driving up from Austin to be with her 41 year old baby (never to old to need your Mommy), she helped me understand what the Doctors were telling me or intervened on my behalf when she knew what they were saying wasn’t exactly clear.
Throughout the day, my concern (incorrectly placed) was with my car and my personal items left in my car~ my bracelet that broke upon impact of the airbag, one of my shoes, my U2 cd, etc. Kathy offered to go to the police impound and collect my belongings; she tried, but was unable to collect anything as she was not the owner. Days later, my Mother and I went to the impound to do the same and if it had not been for my Mother crying to the police officer and them taking pity on me for being in “boot” we would have stood in the long line, waited the more than 2 hours to be called and mingled with the dregs of society that were also trying to get their belongings and/or car. It was a miserable experience and one I hope to never repeat.
Once my car was deemed totaled, the car was transferred to my insurance company’s salvage lot. I was still not able to drive at this point, so Kathy took me out to the yard~ a good 30 minute drive away. She helped me get the final personal items out of my car, that my Mother was not able to retrieve, and drive me back.
This is just one of the examples of Kathy’s kindness and giving. Another one is when I had surgery two years ago I wasn’t able to lift anything over 3 lbs for 6 weeks…Kathy came over every week to take out my garbage!
She is truly my God send! Thanks for letting me tell you all about her!
Yesterday I was at the dollar store picking up a few odds & ends, such as wrapping paper and other small items I needed for thank you gifts to everyone that has helped me out with my upcoming wedding. I ran into a woman from my church there, and right before my turn at the checkout counter she walks up to me and hands me a gift card! It was so sweet, esp. since I am very short on cash with the wedding coming up followed by the cross-country move. Thank you Amy =)
I want to compliment my best friend Molly. She's my inspiration; she just completed the Chicago Triathlon with Team in Training, which raises money for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society. Molly and I aren't very athletic, so when she told me she was going to not only enter the triathlon, but also complete the International Distance, I was shocked. But she did it!! She raised $2700 for a cause that's dear to her heart, as her mom died of Hodgkin's Lymphoma when she was 6. Not only that, but she defeated her first triathlon with a smile on her face. Now, when I get frustrated by a task that's difficult or tedious or taxing, I think of Molly. If she can do whatever she sets her mind to, then I can do the same. She's the best!!
I'd probably never say this outloud or straight to their face, but my parents are the nicest people out there. They might pretend to say that I'm crazy or something, but at the end of the day, they're paying my tuition, giving up days of work to drive me from Chicago to New York (15 hour drive!) for college, and of course accepting me as who I am (couch potato on Friday nights, of course :D). This ring would be the best for my mom, it's probably going to be the first gift I've ever given her. That's if I win of course. Ha!
Thanks for the give-a-way!
A few days ago as a friend and I were parking in a pay parking lot, a woman who was leaving offered us her ticket. YAY for random acts of kindness!
I've been participating in this free "blogging e-course" on Travelin' Oma's blog and it's been a lot of fun. Oma puts so much work and thought into the posts and prompts and I've been looking forward to responding to them in my blog posts each day.
I want to compliment my lovely friend Gloria. She is incredibly kind and open, and is willing to help me with whatever I need. She is running Philly Twestival this weekend while I'm at a friend's wedding in Virginia. She's such a fantastic friend, I am so lucky to have her in my life.
For someone I know: To my niece for truly being 16 in all its glorious mix of still being a child/becoming an woman-ness!
For someone I dont know: Jo from A Cup of Jo for her enjoyable website which has let me to so many other cool ones!
A friend of mine, Shadi Toloui Wallace, is such a talented singer. I had the pleasure of listening to her remarkable voice in a friend’s living room a few years back. Jadi sings about love, kindness, and spirituality -- living as noble beings in this world. She's finally put out her first CD! It’s only fitting that the beauty and fullness of her voice can be shared with the world! Congratulations Shadi!
My best friend is one of the nicest people I know! She would do anything for anyone and she's not as grumpy as I am...She makes me strive to be a better person:)
I would like to compliment an old elementary school teacher of mine who taught us to use Random Acts of Kindness Journals to show what we were doing to make the world better...nicer! It really taught me to get into a very positive habit early on - and one I'm not liable to break anytime soon.
This same teacher was the one who explained to my little 7-year-old-self that you can compliment anyone you'd like, as long as you mean it. This advice has really helped me to branch out and make friends, and I hope - make some almost-strangers' days (cashiers and TSA agents included!). I know a simple "I really like your shirt" goes a long way sometimes! I'm sure others would agree!
So I guess, I'm actually complimenting her use and teachings on compliments - haha!
I'd like to compliment my neighbor, Dustin. Our family car wouldn't start and my husband and I are automotively challenged. He went out of his way to not only diagnose the problem but ran to buy the part and fixed it in our driveway. He would not accept any money. Since then I have also seen him put up a new fence, after the old one had broken and fallen,for a neighbor who's husband is in Iraq. What a generous spirit he has!
Thank you for a wonderfully inspiring blog.
My compliment is for everyone in the medical field that we have had contact with over the past year. It has been a long journey, medically speaking, for my hubby. After many months of tests, he was diagnosed with an unusual infection that caused the loss of his kidney transplant. From there it was on to treatment for the infection and, eventually, dialysis. We have been blessed by so many wonderful doctors, nurses, technicians, and others whose titles I don't even know....thanks to you ALL for being so NICE!!
My compliments to anyone who has ever supported the arts. The arts add a wonderful dimension to our lives and I love to hear about folks who appreciate that.
I want to compliment my beautiful sister Liza, who is the biggest go-getter I've ever met. She lets nothing stop her from achieving what she wants. To me, that is incredibly admirable.
What a wonderful, beautiful piece of jewelry! I just checked out the site and I'd like to compliment the creator of the rings because the idea that is being spread through the rings is such an important one. We remember so many things in life, but how many of them are good? I'm inspired by these rings because they are examples of how we should remember to focus on the positive things in life. Wonderful creation and I'm glad to have learned about it!
I'd like to compliment my husband, Harley. He has been battling cancer for the past two years and in spite of his own discomfort and difficulies, he spends most of his days out having coffee with friends, encouraging them with their life struggles, or praying with others who are also battling illness. He's an inspiration to so many. He's my hero!
Beautiful ring!
I want to compliment my husby. Because I don't do it enough. And he's so super sweet to me. Yesterday he got me a pair of TOMS shoes!
I want to compliment my son Jacob who is almost three. He was diagnosed with Autism this year and is speech delayed. I pretty much spend my entire day guessing what he needs/wants - and a lot of the time, I'm guessing wrong. But there are times when there is absolutely no question what he's thinking and that's when he will randomly come up to me and give me a hug or beam his beautiful smile at me. I know in those moments he's "saying" he's happy and that he loves me. Sometimes actions speak louder than words and I have to compliment my little Jake on how beautifully he "talks" :)
My compliment goes out to all of those who have left comments here before me today. It's been really NICE to read about other peoples good doings/experiences. Warm fuzzies for all!
I'm complimenting my son, a brand new Kindergartener this year...he was adamant that he should bring his teacher a shiny red apple on the first day of school. I don't even know how he heard about giving an apple to the teacher! It's also his teacher's first year, so she was thrilled to get such an iconic treat on her very first day.
My compliment goes out to my daughter. Amber goes to school full time, takes care of a handicapped German Shephard, mediates with her very demaning brother and helps raise her niece. I'm very proud of her!
To the person in the busy train station who returned to my debit card to the lost and found, leaving all my money intact, after I stupidly left it IN the bank machine with an open bank session:
It's been a few weeks now and I can't stop thinking of you. You are my hero. No really. And not just because you didn't take my card or money.
I had always hoped that the human race was fundamentally good but cynics around me insisted on otherwise. You've confirmed to me that the world is a wonderful place, and that people, even in big cities still know the value of being NICE!
You are a truly beautiful person.
Thank you so much!
In this crazy hectic world I am part of I want to thank God for sending me a little boy to come into my life, my grandson. I have a stressful life and my grandson, who is only 3, says such wonderful things that helps me keep my life grounded. The other day when we were at the park on a sunny, nice day and as usual I was stressed out - he looked up the sky and said "Didn't God make a nice day" and that from a 3 year old - wow I am blessed.
I know this probably isn't quite what you had in mind, but I'd like to compliment myself. I am the mama to an 11 month old, and I don't think I give myself enough credit for what I do every day. So often at the end of a day I beat myself up for all the things I didn't manage to accomplish, all the things I failed at, all the things I did wrong, and it makes me so tired of myself. I'm tired of seeing myself as a failure. So, this is me, cutting myself some slack.
I spend all day looking after my sweet little boy, who is such a joy.
I feed him, comfort him, nurture him.
I clothe him, look after his needs, teach him that sometimes no is better, and comfort him when he cries.
I have dinner on the table most nights, and need to stop trying to be the "model" housewife, who doesn't really exist.
I am trying to teach my son important values, such as possessions aren't what's important, it's people and experiences that shape us.
I am trying to live sustainably, as much as I can - re-using, recycling, composting, cloth nappying, etc.
And although my first urge is to put myself and my efforts down, I'm going to stand up in a public place, and pat myself on the back, for everything I do everyday, that no-one but my little boy sees.
I have two in one story lol.
One time my bf was waiting for a bus in pouring rain and this old lady offered him a place under her umbrella (ela ela eee lol). Now mind you, he doesn't exactly look like a lamb and this took place in NYC. He was completely touched by her action that he bought her a bus ticket, and he said that on the way home he was still wet to the bone but couldn't stop smiling.
My man!
P.S. Old ladies rock!
Wow, what a wonderful website, I've just stumbled in...I love it and am so very enamored with the String Ring. Please enter me in your random drawing, yay random!
My compliment is for my friend Kelly, who is pregnant with her second child and who is positivly glowing with happiness right now. She reminded me in an unexpected and unique way, that I'm special and surrounded with love from all directions. She's awesome, how could I have not seen how awesome until today? Kelly, you're awesome!!
This summer has been a summer of big change for me. Aside from the transition between high school and college, I also realized that I've learned a lot about myself this summer. I think I've taken a big leap in terms of finding who i really am as a person and who I want to become. One person that really helped me find that was my friend Jen. Always happy and energetic, she made me realize how important it is to be positive about life and to enjoy every moment of what life has to offer, all while offering a helping hand to others. Without knowing it, she's already an advocate of Operation NICE. I'd really like to win a ring so I can give it to her as a thank you. My compliment goes to her for being such an inspiring person.
I've only just recently regained a degree of happiness resurfacing from depression for a couple of years. And a big part of this happiness has been rediscovering my love for crafts, photography, and gorgeous things. So I compliment you, the owner of this amazing site, and the plethora of other wonderful inspirational bloggers that have helped lift me out of the dark. Because I know how much difference even a little more kindness in the world really makes.
It's so nice to read all these lovely comments and testimonies!
My compliment is for my mum who is a complete saint and lives her life completely selflessly, despite her illness. She has survived bad experiences and yet her heart is still so full of love and compassion. She does everything she can to help others, she chats to strangers, she goes out of her way to help. She truly is a nice person!
I would like to compliment my friend Beau. We have one of the most fantastic and completely platonic friendships I've ever had with a person. Everyday he puts up with my whingey texts about work and traffic and my indecision about what to eat for lunch. And not only does he read and reply to every whingey text or random observation but he appreciates my strange quirks and never just blows me off. We can go out for dinner or coffee or breakfast and chat for hours without having to worry about the weirdness that often comes between male/female friendships. He's a great guy and has become my rock and my best friend without me even knowing it.
Good morning! My cousin Brian just graduated from college and is trying to find his way as an artist. He is a wonderful artist and now he has an upcoming show! A show with his friends at a gallery in Dallas. I am complimenting Brian Ryden and his friends for thier hard work on this show.
So many people to choose from but this one will go to my friend Chris who just lost her nephew in a plane crash. Thank you for sharing his stories on Tuesday - it was a magical, powerful night and we all went away thinking about how we could be better, kinder people. Matt's life continues to change people even now. Hugs and blessings gorgeous girl.
Joan xo
Western Australia
My mother is a saint. She's so loving, sacrificail, and patient. And I will tell her so the next time I see her, thanks to this little giveaway exercise.
I just want to say thank you to all of the people who read and comment on this blog, and a huge thanks to Melissa. I recently started reading this blog and it has been such an inspiration. I'm naturally kind to all but sometimes, like yesterday when someone let the door slam on me in my office building so that my coffee splattered everywhere, I have a hard time staying upbeat. It's so great to know that there are many other people who are just like me out there!
Lately my husband has been making a huge effort to be a nicer person, which I really appreciate, but sometimes I need a reminder to be nice back. :)
I'm thankful for my coworker Jenny, who makes going to work every day a nicer place. Before her, I didn't really have someone to relate to or chat with, so I thank her, for being the nice, friendly, awesome person she is!
I'd like to thank one of my professors, who always encourages me to work harder, that my best isn't necessarily my best, and conducts one of the best class discussions twice weekly that I've ever had, Dr. Wilson, thanks.
I just ended my last day of volunteering at my aunt's daycare yesterday. My goddaughter is my aunt's daughter and I am so enamored with her personality. She is graceful, patient, and kind. This six-year-old girl did not wish to hurt her brother or cry after he accidentally punched her in the eye. She simply asked her mom for an ice pack. Her love for her younger, ridiculously energetic and adorable brother inspires me.
Today is one of my best friends birthday and I want to say that she is so kind and talented and such a great friend.
Those rings are adorable, also :)
i am so thankful for my mom, who now has to bear the burden of supporting the household by herself, yet who still has the time to email and call me in college to talk about things.
My Gammy couldn't be any more perfect. She got her first laptop last year. Gammy is now the email queen. There is not a morning that I come into the office and don't find a sweet email or e-card (always with singing animals). She reminds me daily of the importance of kindness.
PS I really love the ring!
I had a waitress at my local Pizza Hut today who was so kind to me and my family. She was a beautiful young woman whom I am sure will go to do great things!!
I appreciate the gentleman who volunteers in the mornings at the hospital where I work nights. He always has a lovely smile and cheerful attitude. Its a wonderful way to finish your shift with someone wishing you a beautiful day.
I'm so thankful for my 10-year-old German shepherd dog who shows me every day how to enjoy the simple pleasures of life and live life to the most - even in spite of health problems, obstacles and difficulties. She's a fantastic teacher!
I would also love to thank Melissa for providing this website and making such a difference with it. I've just stumbled upon it a few days ago and it gave me new hope and ecouragement.
Big thank you! :)
Thank you to Tina as well for offering three of her beautiful String-Rings. What an original design!
Thank you LL...for always being beyond understanding and patient of my turmoils. You are truly a one of kind man and my BFF.
Carolyn C.
This ring is awesome.
I think you are great, and I'm so thankful that there is a blog dedicated to being nice :)
I recently had to prepare a lesson for church to give to a group of teenaged girls. It was on "righteous thoughts."
I LOVE your ring and the idea it reminds the wearer to have NICE thoughts continually. I'd love to have one for each of the girls I teach.
I have been influenced by many NICE people in my life, but my friend Tammy continues to amaze me each and every day. Thanks for your example Tammy!
I would like to compliment my older sister who is an amazing mother and a giving friend.
After your post on the String-Ring last year, I purchased one for my best friend for her birthday. She absolutely loves it and wears it often! (:
My first time on your blog! How wonderful!
I want to compliment my hubby, for putting up with me when I am stressed out, for cleaning up my spilled grape spritzer at lunch, and for vacuuming the house while wearing our baby in a sling so I can relax for a minute (or two).
Long story short - hubs recently lost job so we put the house up for sale - sold in 8 days - found a new place, but no new job...started packing and realized our house needed to go on a diet, or realistically, we needed a 'possession diet' - thus begins the simplification process called a moving sale. Held it for 2 weekends and I cannot tell you how many NICE, new people attended our sale...some just stopped to chat, but when you offer a friendly smile and hello, the reciprocation that is offered in return was quite beautiful...take the time to smile at someone you don't know...and if you have the time, stop and chat. You may just meet someone very nice. My compliment goes out to all the friendly folks that came to our sale whether you bought something or not, you gave back to us happiness about society and the world in our current situation :) THANK YOU!
Life is full of surprises!
beautiful ring!!! love the concept!!!
i want to compliment my sister, and best friend, melissa. i've been fighting off a summer cold this past week and she called to check on me every day. not that she necessarily has the time being a mom of a 1 year, pregnant, fighting a cold herself, AND working 12 hr days... although i felt like crap, it cheered me up to see her name on my phone!
Man, I can't leave enough compliments from this weekend. I'm recently engaged, and my future in-laws came to stay with my fiance and I. They were gracious, patient guests; more than helpful and darn good company, to boot. They were in town for an engagement party my parents threw. My mom made delicious food, as always, and played the consummate hostess all night - no one wanted to for good conversation, a fresh drink, or a friendly introduction to the people they were sitting near. It was a pleasure spending the weekend with both of them, and I can't wait for all of us to get together next year for the wedding!
My coworker Jen, who I know is having a tough time at work, decorated my desk for my birthday today. I've worked here for eight years and this is the first time I've ever been decorated. I feel really special, and it's her doing. So nice.
Jill
jill.heggie@pensionsbc.ca
This is to all the anonymous drivers in Colorado Springs. Okay not all the anonymous drivers, there's a specific group I want to thank. This is to all the drivers and passengers who let me know in a nice way, that my gas cap is open. It's a small thing but, believe it or not, it restores my faith in humanity a little bit.
I want to thank my daughter for her support as I form some ideas and plans for philanthropy.....I have learned alot from HER philanthropy example.
~Shari R.
I, like so many other people, bob along to a Beyonce song on the radio. However, last night on the VMAs, she showed how classy she is by allowing Taylor Swift (another class act) to have her little moment of audience adoration--not to be interrupted.
Thanks, Beyonce, for showing that even the rich and famous have manners and class.
There is so many people out there whom I would like to say thank you, whom I would love to tell how great they are, and still sometimes I don't. You've done a great job on this page, and you keep reminding me of telling people the things I want to.
I want to take this opportunity to thank all of my fellow scout-girls (and also all the others who do volunteer work). It's really great seeing how much they all do for our scouting troop, without often even getting recognition for it. Seeing the kids have fun makes us know what we do has a purpose, and I am really thankful that all of the other leaders still do this, despite of the tons of work that they have besides scouting. You are great!
This compliment goes to a teacher who has constantly been an incredible source of support both academically and personally, for always being so incredibly kind, warm, nice and supportive.
Also to a friend who invariably makes me smile, even when I'm extremely stressed out- it makes school so much better.
my husband is a good, good person. his heart is huge and i am so grateful we found each other!!! (thanks, p! xo)
So cute! As for a compliment ...
I was just at Target, lugging around a gallon of milk and trying to juggle several items. An older man walked out of his way to offer me a cart. His politeness caught me off guard -- and I was soo thankful!
I want to compliment my mom for being so unbelievably amazing. Everyday she wakes up and serves everyone but herself. She is an inspiration, and a shining example of love. Thank you mom!
I want to thank my friend Mellie, who I went to highschool with, and after many years of no communication, has given me more help in the past few days with my life and job than most family members would do for each other. She is what true friendship is about.
I would like to say what a great person my friend Jessie is. She has dealt with so many major blows to her life over the 7 years I have known her - things that would have had me crying in the corner for days. But every time, she picks herself up, dusts herself off, and keeps her chin up. And she now has a wonderful husband, beautiful daughter, new home, and all around great life. And I couldn't be happier for her.
I'd like to give my student, Shandra, a big (virtual) hug and a warm of applause. I work as a special education teacher, and Shandra is one of my longest students - she was diagnosed with Autism at 2.5 years old, and is now 6 years old. I know it's tough for her coping with each day, but today she just crossed a hurdle and memorized her home phone number! I'm so proud of her and how she never tires to try again and again until she learns her lessons :)
I would like to compliment the people of blogdom that take time to write, leave comments and be totally entertaining, bringing sunshine and smiles to me. Thank you people - you mean more than you know to annonymous people like me!!
I would like to compliment my primary care doctor for listening to me and taking my pain and concerns seriously and striving to find a medical diagnosis or reason for them. Although I frequently have to wait after my scheduled appointment time to see her, I don't mind because I hope she is giving each patient the same courtesy she extends to me: listening without interrupting, exploring different possibilities and causes, and generally being compassionate.
I've been to several doctors who are not as nice and interrupt frequently before I can accurately explain my symptoms so I appreciate my primary care doctor's patience greatly.
And I'd like to say thank you to all the doctors and nurses and techs who are sweet and kind and patient with all of their patients and who sometimes sacrifice efficiency and keeping on schedule for a better relationship with their patients.
I would like to take this opportunity to compliment two very special people, Secret Agent L and Secret Agent V.
You can find them on their blog encouraging people everyday, to execute random acts of kindness all across the world.
I would like to compliment my mom. She makes my breakfast every morning and with her smile can make my day a winner. She is a true treasure!!!
My virtual compliment is to you - Miss Melissa of Operation Nice. You are an inspiration to so many by putting yourself out there to make this world nicer. And also? Your sketches are great! I love them so much it makes me want to pick my sketch book up again.
I want to thank my husband. The most wonderful man I know. Shortly into our relationship, before we were married, long before in fact, I was notified that my brother had been found dead in his apartment. That news alone was enough to send me into despair. But we then found out that he had been found after being dead for a week, and that as family we were going to have to go in and remove everything from the apartment. The idea of going into my brothers death chambers was horrifying.
Well...my new boyfriend at the time, took it upon himself to charge right on in and get to work. He made no complaint. He took on the brunt of the work and he even cried with me over someone he had only met once.
I don't know how much nicer anyone can be.
I thank him every day for being there for me and for my family without complaint or reservation. Thank you Jason.
This compliment goes out to the person that I have had the most difficult relationship with, my old bestie Catherine. While we have had some major friendship difficulties this year I still wish she would know how amazed I am of her. She sets out to do amazing and beautiful things with such a sense of modesty, never asking or expecting recognition. I admire her deeply for this and hope she knows it.
I want to thank the homeless man who touched my heart today.
I gave him $5, and wished I could've given him more.
He reminded me that I need to appreciate what I have.
Today, I want to compliment my little sister. She is my precious little thing! I love her so much, she means the world to me. She's always there for me, she's so pretty ans funny and shes always know how to make me smile and laught! Love you miss K! xxxxxxx
Those rings are gorgeous !
My compliment go to my mother in law. She might be a little overzealous with advice sometimes but she is still one of the most generous, kind, loving people I know when it comes to helping her elderly neighbours (she is 79 herself) and takes them food and drives them to Dr's appointments too.
She is available to us when we need her too.
My compliment is for my best friend April. We are both artists, and the inspiration she gives me with the beautiful and creative sculptures that she makes is invaluable. There have been many times that I question myself and my work, but she has always been honest, supportive and encouraging.
Thanks for the opportunity to share these compliments!
A lot of lovely stories here.
I encountered a lot of very nice people today. I am attending a workshop and my software wasn't working. At least three random people stepped up to offer me to help that it up, let me use their laptops and just constantly making sure I was getting as much out of the workshop as they were.
That was a very nice thing to see.
first off- what a wonderful idea I love this ring
Something nice about someone now that easy- my sweet former co worker sent me the link to this blog- so this is my first time visting! YEA!!!! Nina is always sending me inspirational ideas and quotes it really keeps me going through the long day at work- I work with all men and sometimes they aren't the most understanding. Its so nice to know I have such a gem like Nina to pick me up- even when I don't ask! its so nice to have someone who truly cares about you in your life! Nothing beats it!
I actually have 2 comments for 2 very nice women. First a big hug goes out to the woman who took care of me on the subway when I fainted. You waited with me the entire time until I felt better, then you kept begging me to wait with you until your husband picked you up so the two of you could give me a ride home. What a nice person. And I was so out of it I never caught your name. You were an angel.
My second big hug goes out to the woman who stood out in the middle of Independence Avenue in Washington, DC and escorted a mama duck and her babies across the street to safety. You dear lady, held out your arms and willed the traffic, that normally speeds by so quickly, you willed them to stop. You risked yourself all for the love of our feathered friends.
Nice, nice, very nice.
I am so glad I came across this blog. and I thank you for hosting such an amazing blog that is a testament to the fact that there are people across the world completing random acts of kindness each and every day.
I hope that this blog inspires each bloggers/reader who stumbles upon it to "pay it forward"
So Thank you..
My 81 year old Dad went to our local farmers market in Moncton, NB and bought a beautiful wet/dry garbage container made by hand out of wood. The man was asking $250.00 for his fine work and really was worth ever penny. My Dad handed him the money and the gentleman helped him load it in his car. Dad found this to be hard on this months budget but felt this was a good addition to our home.
One week later he returned to the farmers market and the seller was returning from the bathroom and hollered at Dad to get his attention. Dad thought he was in trouble for maybe not giving him the right amount of money and was willing to give him the correct amount. The man asked Dad to follow him back to his area. He reached into his pocket and handed Dad back a $50.00 bill and explained that when he got home that day and recounted his money that there were two 50's stuck together and knew it was from Dad but had no way of knowing his phone number or name.
Dad was in shock at the honesty of this gentleman and has been telling all of his friends that there are still honest people left in the world.
My Dad has his own story to tell as to why he is so cynical so this was an angel with invisible wings that day that restored some faith to an "old" man.
Seniors know that it's very easy to take advantage of them so for this man to be so honest was very refreshing to Dad.
I would like to compliment my coworkers. Times are tough at the company I work for and we have gone through 2 rounds of layoffs, but everyone here bands together and gets stuff done. When you look forward to being around your coworkers it makes the hard times a little bit easier. Thank you all!
I'd like to compliment my wife, who I never take for granted because she's so amazing. But here is a reminder!
my husband was especially considerate & thoughtful today. he showed me he loved me in a way like never before. i was moved by the moment & humbled by his expression of love. he recalled some terrible things in my past & says how he wishes things were easier for me. he wants to work with me and figure out a way he can help more :)
my neighbor is making me some treats with our fresh crop; salsa & zucchini bread :)
hands down, my dad.
my mother suffers from schizophrenia, which is a horrible, horrible disease. my father has stayed by her side in marriage ("in sickness and in health") for 35 years. he has visited her in psych wards, transitional care homes, and hospital ICUs, some of which were a 2-hour drive each way, and he did it every day. every. day. sometimes for a year or more she'd be in a hospital somewhere. he has lived and slept alone in the house while she has been getting treatment. he's gone to events alone when she was too sick. he took care of everything in the house when she couldn't. he has cared for her, loved her, supported her. for 35 years. and never once has he left her side.
most men would have left. but my father is my hero. he taught me what real, unconditional love is: a feeling AND a decision.
i hope to be half the person he is someday. and i hope to love as deeply and as committed as he does my mom with the people in my own life, every second of every day.
with love from Pittsburgh
Laura
I'd like to compliment my husband - even though he is currently up to his eyeballs working full-time and being a great dad and patient husband to a cranky pregnant lady (LOL), he still makes time to volunteer his time to teach kids karate and hunter safety, help the neighbor's label their breakers (and other chores), and mentor a young man in technical writing. He's a really amazingly giving person and I am so blessed to have him in my life.
My friend and co-worker Jill is one of the warmest and most giving people I have known.
A truly wonderful lady, a complete stranger, stopped to give a friend of mine, and her two small daughters a lift in the pouring rain. They were walking home after their car broke down and had hopelessly watched car after car speed past them. Hearing about this has truly inspired me to believe that there are kind and selfless people out there after all.....and that I want to be one of them.
Heather, it's been over 2 years since you were shot in a car-jacking in Memphis. Since then you have publicly shown forgiveness and Christian love towards the person who shot you. You have influenced countless lives by giving talks and granting interviews about your experience and the total forgiveness of this female even to forgiving her in court and sending her a Bible to read in prison. You are a true example to me and to lots of others....I compliment you on your walk of faith.
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